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Reflection Exercise 1
Author: Naila Marley
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1. The Father wound

The “father wound” often comes from absence, neglect, criticism, or conditional love. It can create patterns of:

>Seeking validation through achievement or approval.

>Struggling with self-worth or confidence.

>Difficulty trusting men (for women) or difficulty embodying healthy masculinity (for men).

Reflection questions:

> How did your father (or father figure) show love when you were growing up?

> Did you feel safe, protected, and seen by him?

>In what ways do you still seek approval or validation today?

> How do you react to authority or men in your life now?

Take a few moments to journal your answers honestly, without judgment.

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  • Reflection Exercise 1

    1. The Father wound The “father wound” often comes from absence, neglect, criticism, or conditional love. It can create patterns of: >Seeking validation through achievement or approval. >Struggling with self-worth or confidence. >Difficulty trusting men (for women) or difficulty embodying healthy masculinity (for men).Reflection questions: > How did your father (or father figure) show love when you were growing up? > Did you feel safe, protected, and seen by him? >In what ways do you still seek approval or validation today? > How do you react to authority or men in your life now?Take a few moments to journal your answers honestly, without judgment.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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